Do you know how to make a guy fall in love with you? You probably do know how to make him lust after you, but love is another matter. What are the qualities that make a guy move from lust for a woman to real love? If you don’t know what they are, you are not alone. Here are two steps you can take to worm your way into his heart.
The fact is, men often mistake lust for love and when the passion begins to diminish, they are ready to move on. Men have more difficulty than women do defining their emotions, so they really can’t tell the difference. They just know when they are ready to move on.
Women, on the other hand, tend to form emotional attachments to the men they find attractive. If all a woman had to do to get a man to fall in love with her was to dress and act provocatively, there would be no problem. That’s what it takes to get him to lust after you – but getting him to truly love you takes a bit more than that.
Make him feel good when you’re around
Of course, it’s not difficult to satisfy a man sexually. But to encourage a long-lasting relationship, you will want to delay sexual gratification and build an emotional bond that keeps him coming back for more. You will need to learn to trigger the positive emotions that make him feel good just to be near you.
Learn what he cares about. Support his hobbies and interests and participate in as many as you can. Laugh at his jokes. Praise him when he succeeds and sympathize if he goes down to defeat. If you’re always there for him at important moments in his life, he will learn to associate the good feelings they evoke with you.
Let the relationship progress at his pace
Men tend to fall in love more slowly than women do, so it’s important to allow him time to develop and understand what he is feeling for you. Even if you’ve fallen hard for him, it’s important not to try to rush the relationship. You’ll need to bide your time, have fun with him, enjoy yourself and let the relationship develop naturally. If you try to rush him before he’s ready, he may feel pressured and pull back, and that’s exactly what you don’t want.
Take your time, enjoy the ride, and you’ll soon discover that you do know how to make a guy fall in love with you.