How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Interested In You Romantically And Desire You Back

There are many men and women around the world that breakup everyday and still have no idea what went bad. Nearly all romances go wrong at some time or another, it is a simple fact of life sadly. All that you can do is put up with this and move ahead or work about rectifying it. Whenever possible, don’t let yourself be too hard on yourself when it comes to screwing up or assume that you aren’t good enough. Also have a positive mind-set and this will do amazing things to your aim of attracting your ex boyfriend back. Put a stop to sobbing into your pillow immediately and phoning up your close friends to go over what went wrong. No person can help you but yourself. These suggestions could make him mad about you again and he won’t be able to take his mind or eyes off you!

Listen up girl, the first thing that we have to deal with is how you are feeling. This is a crucial part as it concerns your wellbeing and frame of mind. It is OK to cry and feel miserable for a while, but there comes a time when you have to dry your tears and get on with life. Break ups happen to the best of us, it is how you deal with them that is important. Try to put yourself in his shoes and see how you would feel if your ex was crying and being depressed. Yes, you may pity them and feel guilty about your decision to break up with them, but you still wouldn’t want them back. Even if he did get back with you when you pleaded, this is not the kind of relationship that you should want. You want a guy to be with you out of choice and not pity.

It is possible that you cannot get your tears under control and you should not be hard on yourself if this is the case. What you would then do in this situation is to disappear for a little while and not contact him. If you let him see how much the break up is affecting you then it is bad news for your future together. You want to use a little reverse psychology here and make him realise that he got you wrong. If you act in a way that he does not expect he will be questioning himself and his reasons for breaking up in the first place. If you feel the urge to text him or get in touch you should try to remember that this will slow down your plans to get him to want you back. He will respect you a lot more if he does not hear from you and be much more attracted to your mysteriousness. Yes I know, men work in very strange ways!

It is easy at this stage to get caught up in the fact that he dumped you because he didn’t love you anymore. Put these thoughts out of your mind right now as this will do you no good in the long run. There could be many reasons why he broke up with you and it is not your fault. Just because he ended the relationship does not mean that you are not a worthwhile person anymore. You still have so much to offer any guy and you must keep this at the forefront of your mind. If you do want to get him back and make him want you again you must understand that you are a good catch and that you still are in possession of all of the qualities that made you so special to him in the first place.

Ok, so the next thing that you must do is to take some notes on what went wrong in your relationship and try to understand why he dumped you. This can be very difficult for some people as it means going through things that they find hard to cope with. You must do it though for you to make your relationship better and to understand why he decided to end it. Try to think about the start of your relationship and how you were together. Then ask yourself how the two of you had changed. You may realise things that you didn’t before. For example, did you nag him or become like his mother instead of his best friend? Did you stop doing fun things together and just sat in all the time getting on each others’ nerves? Whatever it is you have to be honest with yourself and get to the root of the problem if you are to change things for the better.

A good tip to make him realise how desirable you are is to be open with flirting with other men. Do not overdo it though as this could make him angry towards you and think that you are playing games with him. You may be one of those people who are 100% loyal and attentive to your partner and the thought of you flirting with others makes you cringe. A little flirting with others will get your ex boyfriend thinking that he may be missing out on something if he doesn’t start reconsidering his current decision of not giving you the time of day romantically. The important thing is to get back that spark that the two of you once had, there is nothing quite like the first flush of romance. This is what keeps relationships fresh. He needs to be made aware that you are attractive in so many ways, not just physically. Show him that you have a mesmerizing and vibrant personality to boot.

A great girly tip for times like these is to take yourself out of your room and reconnect with people again. Your friends can make you feel good about yourself and look after you. All you need is a new perspective on things and this will make you interested in life again. Why not go shopping and spoil yourself? Get a make over or go to a spa and get treatments done. You deserve to indulge yourself after the rotten time you have had. These little treats will make you feel better and help give you a new identity. Your ex boyfriend will notice these changes in you and start to think of you in different terms. A new top or a new pair of shoes are better than any kind of therapy there is, so get out there and shop till you drop girl!

If he does get in touch with you again there are a few things that you have to remember to make it work to your advantage. It’s easy to become overly optimistic about this meeting if your ex has reached out to you. Regardless of this fact you should arrive and leave without expectations. Appearing too hopeful and excited will worry him and put him off. If he’s taken the first step towards re-establishing communication and it didn’t go as well as you hoped, then leave it at that. If you’ve followed the above advice you’ll get a chance to meet again, and each successive encounter will bring you a little closer to your goal of getting back together. But until that happens, remember that these things take time and you cannot rush them.

This information looks at just some of the tactics about how to get your ex boyfriend interested in you. There are numerous extra things you must accomplish before you can start to bring him back again and you should start today.

Source by Charlotte K Jane

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