When Ross Jeffries (the originator of Speed Seduction) released the book “How To Get The Woman You Desire Into Bed” back in 1992, there was an outcry among some of its readers. Some of the seduction techniques were deemed to be unethical, and it was suggested to Jeffries that he exclude them in order to make the book more ‘acceptable’ by the general public. However, Jeffries insisted that the book’s content remained intact. “I had serious moral reservations about putting (the seduction techniques) into the book,” he said. “However, fair and unfair are relative terms.” So how to get the woman you desire into bed? You might be surprised that it all starts within you. The key to bed the woman you desire is to have what Ross Jeffries called a “Super Get Laid Attitude”.
Success with women often has less to do with your specific actions with women, but rather more to do with your self-confidence. If there is one thing that you could do to increase your confidence with women, it is to completely remove your neediness for acceptance by women.
To get the woman you desire into bed, first you will have to create rapport with her. One of the most powerful ways to create instant rapport with the woman you desire is via this hypnotic technique called ‘mirroring’. The easiest way to apply this technique is to match your desired woman’s breathing. Once you master this technique, continue mirroring her tone of voices and the gestures that she uses.
Once you successfully created rapport with the woman you desire, your next step is to get a date with her. Many pickup gurus recommend that you get her number first, and then wait for a few days, call her up and then ask for the date. According to Ross Jeffries, it is far more effective to ask for an ‘instant date’.
The key to make her agree to an ‘instant date’ is to make the date intriguing enough to compel her to say yes. The place of the date should be near where you met her. Don’t ever ask her to immediately go back to your place. It is possible that she wants to go back with you, but due to her fear of appearing to be too easy, she would refuse you outright.
Once you have built enough comfort with her, you could then invite her back to your place. Again, give her reasons to go back with you. When she is at your place, use this technique called ‘push-pull’ in order to get her into bed. For example, lean towards her as if you want to kiss her. Then, pull away. This would amplify the attraction that the woman has for you. Repeat this enough times in order to build the sexual tension and you will find her ready to go bed with you.
In conclusion, in order to get the woman you desire to bed, you first create a rapport with her. Then, go for an ‘instant date’ in order to build comfort on top of the attraction that she already has with you. Then, bring her home and use ‘push-pull’ techniques outlined above to seal the deal.