If you want to date a stripper you should know from the beginning that you have your work cut out for you. Of course, the payoff is that you will be living every man’s dream once you are successful in getting a stripper to agree to date you! There can be nothing quite like dating a woman that is skilled at seducing a man and knows what men want.
The problem is that most strippers don’t date customers. If you have tried asking a stripper out you will have probably been told this at least once. It doesn’t matter how nice you are or how cool you might come off, most strippers simply don’t date men that they met at work.
So how can you seduce a stripper and make yourself irresistible to her? How can you seduce someone that is in the business of seduction? She has probably heard every line imaginable and gets hit on every day at work in ways that most women simply couldn’t handle. I doubt they have a bouncer in your office to deal with harassment, do they?
What she will probably find most seductive about you is that you are real, genuine and not some stalker psychopath. You aren’t a stalker or a psychopath, are you? Typically, they visit strip clubs on a daily basis and they hold absolutely not chance of dating her or seducing her into a relationship.
Be Yourself – As tempting as it might be to try to impress her with how much money you have or what kind of car you drive, if you are really looking to seduce a stripper you aren’t going to do it with money or material possessions. You might make yourself a sugar daddy for a short while if she is that type of girl but is that what you really want?
She gets hit on all day by guys offering her vacations and trying to impress her. Why not try being different. Open up to her a little bit and spend more time talking and less time ogling. Look her in the eye when you talk to her. Ask her how her day was or how her week has been. Show an interest in her and try to create a connection with her.
It’s A Job – Show her that you understand that stripping is just a job. Although it can be kind of fun and very profitable it is still a job and a tough one sometimes. Strippers are very athletic and it takes a lot of skill to dance like she does. Being a stripper also requires a lot of interpersonal skills to be able to make a good living. Ask her if she’s working on any new routines or what she finds the most difficult about her work day.
If she tells you that the most difficult part of dancing is creepy guys or drunk guys tell her that you meant about her dancing. Tell her that you figured that it would be tough to keep guys from grabbing her but that you knew that technically dancing was difficult since you have a hard time doing a simple box step.
Follow this advice and you will see that there really is a lot to seducing a stripper. Dating a stripper could be one of the most memorable relationships that you will ever have and exotic dancers are some of the most interesting women you might ever date. Of course, this doesn’t take into account all the fringe benefits that go along with dating a stripper but there is no doubt that you have already thought of those, haven’t you?