Your marriage has ended, but all you can think about is how to get your wife back. You thought your marriage was great. Sure, it had it’s fair share of problems, but what marriage doesn’t, right? When you are wondering if your wife can ever love you again, the answer is yes. Here are some tips to help you to win her heart back.
The two of you loved each other enough to get married. The kind of love it takes to make a person want to get married is deep. It doesn’t just go away. Even if she doesn’t want to admit it, she does still love you. It may not be as strong a love as it once was, but there IS love for you still in her heart.
When you see your ex wife, it’s perfectly fine to say hi to her, and to stop and chat. Don’t try to talk too long, or start a meaningful conversation with her right now. The shorter the conversation, the better. If there are still hurt feelings or anger, they will surface again when you’re together too long. By keeping things short and sweet, she won’t have time to think about the bad things, and you will be in the front of her mind, instead of buried deep in the back.
Why did the two of you split up? Many things cause marriages to end. It could’ve been your fault, or hers, or both. Figure out what went wrong. What was the final straw, and what led up to it? Are these problems avoidable?
Are you absolutely positive that the two of you were meant for each other? If yes, then you have to give things some time. You both have been through a traumatic experience, and it will take some time to heal. that doesn’t mean that you can’t see her, or talk to her, though. It just means that you have to keep things simple right now. Keep the tension at bay.
When you can talk to her more frequently, then it’s time to take things a step further. Ask her if she’d like to join you for coffee, or lunch. Stay in a public place, where you will both be comfortable. Don’t bring up any bad things. You are going to build a future relationship with her – keep the past in the past. Don’t try to see her every day – there will be plenty of time for that in the future.
Things will happen naturally, and you will both be relaxed with each other. Enjoy every minute you spend with her.