If you have ever gone into a strip club, you have probably noticed that they are generally full of very drunk and very delusional men who sit there voraciously eyeing off the naked beauties on stage like they are a prime rib steak.
You see them stuffing their hard earned dollars into the skimpy outfits of these usually beautiful women and you would probably think to yourself, who is he kidding? That stripper is not going to sleep with him, he’s just throwing his money down the drain.
Well I know that is what I thought when I first walked into a strip club but then one hour later I started getting a bit bored and wanted to get closer to the action and the next thing I know, I am that very same horny fool stuffing my hard earned dollars into the pantie strap of a very evocative young lady.
On those nights, I would go home alone and broke and end up jerking off in front of my computer; it wasn’t until this happened to me more times than I’d like to admit that I decided to do something about it and that’s when I decided to dedicate a great deal of my spare time to mastering stripper seduction.
At first I thought that perhaps it was the way I was dressing, or maybe I didn’t look like I had enough money. So I went and got my style touched up and I filled my wallet with 100 dollar bills, this didn’t get me laid it just made me look like an easier mark.
Then I thought that maybe I should start acting like Jerk towards them and this didn’t get me laid either it just got me kicked out of a few strip clubs.
Then I finally decided to take a more intellectual approach to it, I started studying a lot of seduction material and began to understand the basics of attraction through the help of seduction sites and what would you know, it worked, I developed my own method of consistently being able to seduce strippers.
I’m not just talking about once every couple of weeks either, I’m talking about every single time I would step foot in a strip club I would be going home with a stripper and here are my 10 tips to help you do the same.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 1: Act like you own the place.
When you go into a strip club, you want to give off the image that you are an important guy and not just another easy mark.
Be social with the staff and get to know them on a name to name basis; if you see anyone else who looks like they’re a big deal then introduce yourself to them as well, if you are hanging out with the right crowd then strippers will look at you more positively and give you more respect.
It’s a bit like a high-school popularity contest, if you are seen hanging out with cool kids rather than the losers then the hot girls will think you are a cool kid and want to get to know you. In strip clubs the bartenders and security are the cool kids and the sleazy desperate punters are the losers.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 2: Don’t objectify her.
Most guys think that by watching a stripper exposing themselves on stage, the stripper is degrading herself and this might be true; however, what you should also be aware of is that this is a two-way street and by objectifying the girl on stage you are also objectifying yourself as a desperate horny guy who has to pay to see a girl naked.
Look strippers in the eyes instead of checking out their bodies, it will make them feel like you see them as real people rather than naked barbies and this will set you apart from all the other chumps there.
When you catch their gaze make sure you hold it, this will show them that you are an alpha male and encourage them to approach you.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 3: Try not to shop around too much..
When you are trying to seduce a stripper you need to first build a connection with her and make her feel like she is special.
It is not like a brothel where you can pick and choose and it doesn’t matter because you are paying for it and it is a simple transaction, strippers are not whores and your aim is to sleep with them for free so if you want to go home with them you need to treat them like people and not items on sale.
When you see the stripper that you like, try to stick to your target. You might meet one and find that you don’t like her personality and want to move on and that is fine, as long as you don’t do it too often. Realistically you can afford between 2-3 switches before it looks like you are just shopping for sleaze.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 4: Make her sell herself.
The more you can get a stripper to sell herself to you the more invested she becomes in you as a person.
When you initiate a conversation with her, make her feel like she is the salesperson not you. If she offers you a lap-dance get her to tell you what makes her lap dances so good.
Don’t be an easy sell because the more you make her work for it, the more she will respect you as a person. It will also make your interaction feel like more of a seduction rather than a transaction.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 5: Get her real name.
When girls first start working at strip clubs they are usually told to make up a stripper name, like Crystal or Dakota or Mercedes; this is done for several reasons such as.
-Its quite common for strippers to get stalkers and giving them a fake name makes it harder for them to track them down outside of work hours.
-It allows them adopt alternative persona’s and psychologically distance themselves from their clientele.
-A lot of guys find exotic stripper names to be sexually appealing and it dehumanizes the women the women they are paying to sexualize themselves.
By getting her real name you are making your interaction a lot more personal and this is a vital basis of any successful seduction. A good way to get their name is to tell them something along the lines of…
“I can’t accept a lap dance from a stranger but if you tell me your real name I guess you wont be a stranger anymore”
When a stripper gives you her real name she has made a significant investment in you as a person and trusted you with a very personal information about herself. This is crucial to her wanting to go home with you at the end of the night.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 6: Pay for a dance but don’t let her dance.
This is the point where you will really stand out from a lot of her usual clients. What you want to do is pay her for a lap dance and then when she starts to dance, tell her you would like to get to know her better first and sit her down next to you.
Once she is sitting next to you get her to talk about herself, her passions and her interests. Pretty much at this point in time you want to make her feel like she is on a date instead of working, it also shows her that you are more interested in her personality than her body.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 7: Ger her mind off the job.
When you are talking to her, make sure that the topic of conversation never falls onto her job as a stripper.
Your aim is to make her forget that she is at work because this will make her treat you like more of a person rather than a client. Get her talking about things that she is interested in outside of work and encourage her to share by sharing with her some interesting and endearing things about your life.
For instance, you could talk to her about your pet dog, or places that you have traveled to; most girls can relate to topics like these and she is a lot more likely to open up to you if she feels like you have opened up to her, this creates a feeling of a trust and connectivity.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 8: Don’t show any shame.
While you are at the club make sure that you don’t come across as being ashamed of being there.
If a stripper thinks that you are ashamed of being there then you will look like a loser and you will make her feel like she should be ashamed of being there.
Always appear proud of yourself and put the focus on having a good fun time, don’t let anyone think that you believe that you are doing something shameful or immoral by being there. This is a major turn-off for strippers.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 9: Don’t proposition strippers for sex.
If you have a good thing going with a stripper and you think she might be down for some late night debauchery, the worst thing you can do is directly proposition her for sex.
If you do this then she will assume that you think she is a prostitute and she will likely either
A) Get offended that you think she is a prostitute and walk away.
B) Decide that if you think she is a hooker then she may as well charge you for it, even though she was planning on sleeping with you for free.
The best way to proposition a stripper is to suggest some activity after she finishes which would most likely lead to sex without actually saying sex, for instance you could say, “Do you want to come get a drink with me somewhere after you finish?” Or you could invite her around for a swim in your pool or a movie at your place.
Be creative. You want to suggest an activity which is conducive to sex without actually being sex.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 10: Try your hardest to make it happen on the night.
Even if a stripper gives you her number, her e-mail, her Facebook etc. if she doesn’t go home with you on the night, then chances are she never will.
Although she might have been interested at the time that she met you, most of the time they will wake up the next morning and have some serious doubts about their judgement from the night before. Most strippers have a rule of never dating clients, going home with them however is a whole different can of beans.
If you think that she is interested then you need to push the idea of her coming back to your place or meeting up with her on the same night. Essentially you need to strike while the iron is hot because the longer it is until you see her again the more you chances of sleeping with her wane.